What do we really want in life?January 22, 2014
This question always appear in our mind, asking us... is this what we really want in life?
Or if not, what do you really want in life then?
I always thought I know what I want in life, but maybe I don't now. Maybe.
Honestly, I know what I want. But what I want in life might be hindered by various obstacles or factors. Maybe it can be your family or your friends, or due to personal ability and competency, or it might be the working environment, and not forgetting opportunity and luck as well and there so many more obstacles or factors in life that you have to consider and encounter to decide on what you really want in life.
I know a lot of people will tell you that, once you made the decision you must be sure that you won't regret at the later part of your life. This is true, because if this is what you want, then why would there be any regrets. And many people will also say that, you must have the guts and dare to follow your dreams so you also won't regret in life and die without realising your dreams. Some also said that, as long as you are happy with your decision is most important. As long as you're happy on whatever you're doing, is more than enough. All these are very very true but not everyone can basically just do that.
So I guess it is somehow true to a certain extent because we also have other commitments to take into consideration. Like all the various obstacles or factors that I mentioned earlier. For me, I think it will be family that really will affect and weighs the most in my heart on the things I really want to do in life.
But probably is also the culture of how Singaporeans, or Asian in general are brought up. We are more conservative and always choosing the safer route and alternatives to everything. I'm not saying that it is a bad thing, it is also good because it's a more safe and stable option and you have something you can depend on. Hahahaha sorry if you guys don't really get what I say now or find it weird why am I talking about all these all of a sudden. It's just some random thoughts running through in my mind tonight.
I guess tonight before I sleep, I shall think about all these again. Yup, I should.
Anyway, I think I didn't post up this 2 videos that we did up on my blog yet! So if you haven't watch.....